Many of us have dreams. However, some of us do not manage to fulfill their dreams (neither in full nor in part). We have it in us to blame 'something' external to us for this failure. This way, we could get rid of the burden of being at fault. At times, A reminder of some stuff that needs to be born in mind while ploghing through one'slife won't do no harm..
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